Being who we are online and offline – Generation V?

A common theme often emerges when showing people virtual worlds and metaverses. The theme is that of identity. Whilst sometimes this is the more usual business side of identity “how do we know someone is who they are claiming to be” that is actually a slightly different problem to the one that is actually expressed “people are hiding behind their avatar”.
Much of what I present to people is around my online persona as epredator. This is intended to help them understand that we all have projections and labels that we deliver in online interactions. The avatars in virtual worlds just make that slightly more obvious as we have a humanoid puppet with some elements of our name or reputation attached to it.
In SL I tend to be a masked science fiction predator avatar. In my explanations I go on to show that that is not something I hide behind, but is in fact a very expressive facet of my personality, with a link to my regular offline self in that I wear the same leather jacket in RL and SL. I am not choosing to hide who I am, but show more of who I am through the avatar puppet.
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This approach is not an obvious one, as very often we take on avatars for games, such as Nico in GTA IV and take on a role to progress a story.
As having an online persona is a bit of a shock to some people, I try and explain they already have one, when they email, or sametime IM someone. Bloggers know they have a voice and a persona they develop for a particular style of post. What people are less likely to contemplate, but are led to do so by the principles of online personas, is that they exist with multiple facets to who they are all the time. People are slightly different at work to at home, with friends and with family.
In business someone might act tough and hard nosed as they are expected to blend with an ideal, yet at home they may be gentle and caring. Having to think who you are and understand how your persona(s) alter those around you is not something many people do. The people who do do this effectively are usually the leaders in organizations, they use their persona(s) in various ways to gather support and push things forward. (There are also people who lie, cheat and steal using multiple personas).
So, the premise here is that being online and having avatar representations or social media profiles is no more dishonest than anything else used in the wrong way. In fact I think there is a lot to be said for trying to make sure that all your personas are integrated, that it is really you, that you do not hide behind any of them, be it position at work, fame and fortune or just an unusual lifestyle.
I was very pleased to see that my anecdotal pop psychology on this matter was justified by this fantastic quote “We get so used to disguising ourselves to others that we end up becoming disguised to ourselves” by the French writer and philosopher The Duke de La Rochefoucauld. I came across this on the fantastic blog Slow Leadership in an article about leaders being genuine at work and not just playing the part. (Which was in turn inspired by an ft article by Stefan Stern.
The Slow Leadership article is specifically referring to bosses and reportees, but I think it has much wider relevance as we start to alter those traditional structures in business (or enterprise 2.0).
The bottom line though is that we can hide behind avatars, just as we can hide behind a desk, a suit, a name plaque, an email address, a front door or a process. Likewise we can actually get to be more integrated and honest individuals able to work, share and play with others with avatars just part of the mix. The disingenuous nature of some people in any field is not a reason ignore metaverses in business.
**Update: I recently read this brilliant description of a change in the generational divide. The term Generation V is used to alude to the change in attitudes across generations. We no longer need to consider Gen X, Gen Y etc, but instead those people that have merged across those generations and operate online with varying degrees of engagement and persona.
The article is well worth a look here from Gartner analyst Adam Sarner
Thanks to Malburns for twittering Giff Constables piece on it that led me to it

7 thoughts on “Being who we are online and offline – Generation V?

  1. We are different in every different situation. It’s a key part of relationships that we share different parts of our character with different people, and that they bring out different things in us.

    It’s the “real life” identity that is a mishmash of things that will throw people off the scent of how they should relate to me. Online, with a name that people don’t associate with anything much, they have to relate to your ideas, and judge you for what you bring to the discussion rather than what you look like, your race or religion or age or sex.

    There is of course the concern that the people are more likely to misbehave if they can do so anonymously , and it’s quite likely that you will experience prejudice if you take a stand on this.

    What is important is reputation, and certification of authorship. The single “real name” that creates the persona is irrelevant. (Especially considering the fact that some online personas are gestalts, or psuedogestalts).

    I think rather than trying to impose our “real world” systems of identity on the internet, we’d do well to learn from the internet in our social structures in “real world”, and make it easier to allow people to call themselves different things in different situations. It would require a rethink of social structures, but it can be done, and it would provide people with an extra layer of freedom.

  2. We are different in every different situation. It’s a key part of relationships that we share different parts of our character with different people, and that they bring out different things in us.

    It’s the “real life” identity that is a mishmash of things that will throw people off the scent of how they should relate to me. Online, with a name that people don’t associate with anything much, they have to relate to your ideas, and judge you for what you bring to the discussion rather than what you look like, your race or religion or age or sex.

    nice blog

    Regards
    Gwen

    http://work-doctor-australia.com

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